Being Bi

it seems that bisexuals are a maligned species of human these days, accused of being gay by the hetero community and of being straight by the gay community. Maybe I'm over generalising but when you're called greedy by both sides it makes me upset. It seems that intolerence is rife when some members of a larger minority pick on and bully members of a much smaller minority. What is so wrong about being attracted to people? I find both men and women attractive but I have no desire right now to have a sexual relationship with either gender. Maybe I'll meet someone and we'll just click but to be honest can I find all that I want in one person? I'd like to think that if I find someone then they'll be everything I need, then again I'm hardly a good catch, a neurotic crossdresser with intimacy and trust issues, I'm hardly anyone's Miss Right. Yeah I do see myself as more female than male, but I think I'd rather not bother with all that groin business on the whole. I'm not looking and if anyone found me they'd probably throw me back until I sort myself out and find a way to be me.